The Self-Care Question Nobody’s Asking (But Should Be) | The Wright Method

Jan 23, 2026

We talk a lot about self-care. Bath bombs. Meditation apps. Setting boundaries. All important.

But here’s the question nobody’s asking:

What if the most radical form of self-care is building something worthy of what it cost you to survive?

Self-Care vs. Soul-Care

Traditional self-care maintains your baseline. It helps you cope, manage, survive.

Soul-care? That’s different. Soul-care asks:

  • How do I honor the strength I’ve developed?
  • How do I use my hard-earned wisdom purposefully?
  • How do I create a life that reflects my true capacity?
  • How do I build something meaningful from my struggles?

The Real Self-Care Audit

Quick exercise. List three things you’ve done recently just for you.

Now ask yourself:

  • Did they challenge me to grow?
  • Did they align with my deeper purpose?
  • Did they honor my full capacity?
  • Did they move me toward my vision?

If the answer is no, you’re maintaining—not thriving.

What Soul-Level Self-Care Actually Looks Like

It’s not just rest—it’s purposeful action.

Soul-care means:

  • Using your gifts strategically
  • Building systems that support your energy
  • Creating work that aligns with your values
  • Pursuing goals that excite your spirit
  • Investing in your vision, not just your comfort

The Wright Method Approach

We integrate what most people separate:

  • Healing modalities (like Access Bars) with business strategy
  • Inner wisdom with outer success
  • Authentic self-expression with profitable business models

Because real self-care isn’t choosing between authenticity and success. It’s building a life where both thrive together.

This is especially crucial for women who’ve survived trauma. You didn’t fight this hard to build a mediocre life. You deserve to create something extraordinary—something that honors both your healing AND your ambition.

Explore how The Wright Method can help you move from self-care maintenance to soul-level thriving.